How To Approach Women
Do you want to learn
how to approach women?
Here are 5 tips:
1. Have a good body language, relaxed shoulders, straight neck and keep your chest out. If you look confident you probably are confident, women love confident men.
2. Smile and look/be happy. Women want's to be where it's most fun.
3. Make eye contact or flirt before you approach. Many guys fail because they approach to fast, so the woman don't see you coming and instinctively blow you off .
4. Be sociable to other people, beside the women you want to approach, so it doesn't look like an approach but more like you just are a sociable confident man.
5. Use a false time constraint, in other words; tell her that you are about to go somewhere (even if you are staying for a while).
This is good for many reasons for example: She will not see you as that guy that will stay for hours, instead she can lose you any second and you also show her that you have other things to do.
Here is a video I recommend you to see if you are want to learn how to approach and attracting women... (it's the same technique I'm using)
But before you go out and approach women, I recommend you to first read my story about how I got good at approaching women...
My name is Carl, I am 27 years old.
I have always been a bit shy... I can‘t say it has been easy for me to approach women.
The hardest thing has been to figure out what to say to women...
I guess you probably also have had similar problems (many guys screw up at this).
In the past I'd made a complete fool out of myself... either because I didn’t know what to say or that I just said stupid things.
About 5 month ago I decided to find the best way to approach women... so I searched all over the internet for it... then I read pretty much every article I could find on the topic.
But still it was hard to find an easy way to learn this stuff...
I didn’t want to memorize stupid pick up lines.
And I wanted to learn it fast, and take away my approach anxiety and fear of rejection for good.
After about a month of going through almost every technique on the web,
I found one technique that really stood out...
This technique was about "
how to read a women’s mind".
Basically it shows men how to identify a woman's female type (there are 8 different types of women). To know her type you just have to ask her 3 simple questions, then you know what she get's attracted to...
After that you just display the qualities she likes, and your chance of getting her is much higher...
It took me about 2 weeks to learn this technique to approach women...
When using this formula I never have to worry about what to say to women or how to approach.
When you know a woman's type (and I learned to recognize it even before I approached)... all nervousness goes away because you know exactly what to say to get her attracted to you.
I've been using this formula for 5 month now... and I approach more than 10 women a day, and gets 5 new phone numbers every single day.
I don’t have to go out to the clubs anymore to “try” to approach women, because every weekend is pretty much booked up with a woman.
I now date more girls than I ever could imagine doing.
It’s hard to believe that I ever had a problem approaching women...
What once seemed hard is now second nature for me and on top of it, it's fun.
If you want to handle your approach anxiety once and for all and get better at approaching I recommend you to
watch this video.
The video might not be up forever... so see it while you still can.
It changed my life, it might change yours as well.
Good Luck! /Carl
My blog posts
If you are afraid to approach women, the best thing is to start being more social.
You need to exercise your social muscles to do good approaches.
For example: Start talking to the cashier, clerks, bartenders, other guys and non attractive girls.
Don’t see an approach like you “have to” go up and talk to a girl.
See it more like you are having a good time talking to interesting people, and not necessarily only girls, but guys as well.
Your mindset should be that you are not actually approaching, you are just a sociable guy that happens to be there. And if the girls don’t have fun being with you than that’s their problem. If she is boring or bitchy she not worth talking to anyway so… NEXT!
It’s a numbers game so approach many girls in a night. You might be rejected but it’s only hard the first few times, after that it you will not care much about it.
She is not the last woman in the world, so you can just continue talking until you find a woman you have good connection with.
In the following 4 blog post I will answer questions from readers.
The first one is about “How to approach a woman”.
I would recommend you to read the first page to find out how to approach a woman.
Here you can read about my personal story of how I got good at approaching women.
In bars and clubs you need to be unique, you can’t be like everyone else. Be cocky funny and tease girls.
Go out earlier, this is because early at night it’s usually more girls than guys and the girls haven’t already been approached by a bunch of assholes. So their guard is not as high as 2-3 am.
As I said earlier, make her see you before you approach, otherwise if you just grab her without warning, she have to instinctively reject you because of not looking cheep in front of her friends or other people.
Approaching women in the daytime can be terrifying for some guys. Actually it’s ok to be nervous. Just tell the girl “- I just had to come and say hi to you, I would regret it if I didn’t.
I am Marc, what’s you name? “This shows that you are assertive, you do what you want in life and don’t miss out on an opportunity, and have strong self-confidence to approach in the daytime (most guys don’t do this).
Best days to approach is in the beginning of the week, when women are most off guard
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Read my personal story to learn how to approach women.
To get a girl to approach you can be hard, but there are some tricks you can use. You need to give the girl enough hint’s that you are interested in her, so she doesn’t have to risk get a rejection. You basically approach without approaching by flirting with her from a distance.
Most girls are afraid to approach guys so that’s why you need to give her strong signals.